The following is what I wrote in a private message to {{{Simon}}}}.  I asked his permission to post what I wrote *here*.  And he graciously  and generously gave it.

“When I lived alone, it never felt quite *real*. It’s as though we’re here on this physical plane to relate to other people, and if we’re not doing that then it doesn’t feel quite right – except for limited periods of time. But just one person is all that is really needed.”

One of the greatest ‘secrets’ of Life I discovered, was that every single relationship I had ever had in Life, was a mirror of how I related to myself.  ALL our relationships to one another, are mirrors of how our ‘human’ self sees itself in relationship to our ‘divine’ self.  In this way we are all mirrors of each other.  That is the reason why at the time of our 1st awakening, many of our relationships change.  Some people leave, as others enter.   The ‘inside’ has changed, in the way we see ourselves, in the way we relate to ourselves and so the outside changes to match.

It’s the Law of Attraction.  It’s the Law of Correspondences.

That’s why I keep saying the key to the outside lies inside.  We have to be at Peace, within ourselves, with ourselves, before our relationships will mirror this Peace.

Whatever we claim to perceive in our World, exists inside our head before we can claim to see it.  The whole idea of ‘evil’ or ‘conflict’ has to be within us, we have to believe it exists, before we can claim to see proof of it in our world.  Such is the reason I keep saying where you see ‘conflict’, I see ‘cooperation’, because you’re not seeing the conflict within the people themselves, that has drawn the conflict to be mirrored to them.  Each side in any conflict is merely a point on the same rubber band.  All energy seeks resolution, a state of balance and ‘stillness’.  A state of ‘complete’.  Such is the reason any rubber band will snap, once it is extended…to resolve the energy of tension, to come to a state of being ‘at peace’ with itself.

To heal, is to reconcile the ‘two brothers’, the two aspects.  And at the root of the trouble, is the idea of ‘or’, for it triggers our ‘human self’s’ survival fears.   That’s why I keep saying ‘and’.  There is only ‘and’, no such thing as ‘or’, so there is no need to fear.

You think of yourself as a physical being and I know for a fact you already know yourself to be more then that.  How much more is questionable but you already know yourself to be more then simply a purely physical being.  Always have known it, too.  Just never realized it.

I dare you….(grinning)

Take any 3rd dimensional set of weights & measures and tell me how much you feel?   A liter?  A ton?  A meter?  How much?

Next, using the same set of tools, what are the weight or depth of your thoughts?

You’re going to be faced with 2 choices.

Choice #1:  Since neither feelings or thoughts can be measured with any 3rd dimensional set of weights and measures, since they cannot be proved, they do not exist.

Choice #2:  Since neither feelings or thoughts can be measured with any 3rd dimensional set of weights and measures, and everyone experiences them, they must exist in another dimension besides the 3rd.   And because we can sense them, so must we.

Our physical bodies are like tips of an iceberg, one spoke of a great wheel.  You’ve been aware of your mental body and your emotional body all your life but never realized these bodies cannot be “3d”.

“3d” bodies are for the purpose and enjoyment of expressing the other dimensions, what’s within.  It’s the one spoke that gives expression TO all the others.  For you are correct, ”Joy” is only and can only be created by one means.  Love’s extension.  That’s where other people come into play.  And why I keep repeating we can only give as good as we got.  Again, directing us within to the relationship we have with ourselves, so that we may give to ourselves, then have, to extend to others.

Everywhere you see conflict is because people are trying to “get”.  “Give & Take” so the saying goes.  I say the saying is a contradiction.  “Give” goes with “Have” and “Take” goes with “Get”.   Those of us who do not “have”, seek to “get”.

Ask yourself what is being extended, if ‘not having’ is the motivation?  Is it need or is it Love?  On what fundamental basis, are we building our relationships?

Then start seeing it as the mirror of what’s inside of us.  ‘Human’ self imagines ‘love’ means never experiencing things that are less then lala.  Being given all we want, whenever we want.  Everything going our way, no matter what our way is.  And because this is how our ‘human self’ defines ‘love’, doesn’t believe and trust that ‘god’ or our divine self, loves our human self.

It’s because I can see this internal pattern of doubt and fear, that I keep trying to convey there is great confusion and misunderstanding about what ‘love’ even is.  What we have called ‘love’ and known in our lives, is NOT ‘love’ at all.  It is “need”.  And without this veil of misunderstanding, it is OBVIOUS how very much each and every single one of us is UNconditionally loved and supported by the Universe Itself.

Those of us getting the very least out of our lives, those of us who have symbolically taken the value(talent) of our life and buried it in the ground for safe keeping, awaiting Master’s return, are those of us who are so afraid of experiencing anything ‘negative’, that we really don’t experience much of life at all.

What all these ‘peace meditations’ say to me, is to tell me how many Judgments upon Life Itself the participants have.  How many experiences in it are condemned and rejected, with annihilating these experiences as a goal.  With a desire to limit everyone’s cup of life to only half, since half of life is all the participants know how to handle and embrace.

A desire to make the earth into a version of someone’s gated heaven.  A gated ~lala~ land, a kind of like a sanitarium, where all those of us who do not know how to love life, are protected from having to face it.

{{{{{hugs}}}}}

Sue And