A friend and I were having a discussion this morning.  We were talking about how some of us misunderstand nurturing.  We’re smothers rather then mothers.   We seek to protect our young from anything and everything ‘bad’ in the world.

Now, I certainly don’t consider anything ‘wrong’ with being stewards of our children’s survival, until they reach an age they can do for themselves.  Where smothering comes in, is when our children have been so protected from the ‘evil’ of the world, that they don’t have a clue as to how to relate and survive, themselves, in it.

I said imagine a mother bird, who brings everything her baby bird needs to their nest, a comfy place she created.  ‘Oh no, you don’t want to leave the nest.  There are dangers out there.  A hawk could get you or a cat pounce on you.  The outside  world is a place to be afraid of.”  So the baby birds get fat.  Their wings atrophy.  And no matter how much stuff momma bird continues to bring to their nest, to keep her babies attention occupied, it never is enough. 

She eventually wears herself out, eating and regergitating everything for her babies, who are now fully grown.  She dies. And all her children die.

Without ever mating.

without ever having any children of their own.

without ever learning how to fly.

and without ever experiencing the joys of their own nature.

The ways of a dodo.

It is far wiser to teach our children the ways of the world, ALL of them and, teach how to relate to them, deal with them and cope with them. 

Then the world isn’t such a scarey place and our children can experience soaring in it. 

We’re approaching an alignment of gravitational fields.  It will come exact on the 20th.  Some would refer to it as an alignment with our Galactic Center.  I know  a lot of us don’t think about it but our sun revolves in its own orbit around another star system and of course, that star system revolves around another…and that’s the way the ‘chain’ works all the way to the central core.  Wheels, within wheels, within wheels.

I’m already ‘getting whiffs’ of this one.  The best I can describe the energy of it is to say “Know”, which also sounds a LOT like “No”, which tells me it’s going to be a flip of the coin.  We can either choose to ‘know’ or get used to hearing ‘no’ to our desires.

You could say the poles are shifting.  For Ages Humanity has been focused and directed towards being sons of Man.  Now the focus of Humanity is shifting to being focused and directed towards being sons of God.  It’s a Whole shift in awareness.

A lot of us have been imagining ‘Oneness’ in laalaa terms of getting something, like “being one with someone” means staking a claim to some fruit of life.  It’s in terms of ‘taking’.  We also tend to understand it in terms of what our personalities desire.  We have not learned the understanding of Desire, nor understand the effects in our pursuit of it, as it relates to Willfullness.  We aspire to achievements and rewards we have yet to achieve.  And we all know the story about the kid who thought he was big enough to drive his father’s chariot across the heavens.  

 What Genuine Oneness is all about, has to do what what we’ve got to give, what we’ve got of inner substance to express.    Not how positive we are but how embracing we are of BOTH negative and positive.  Is our Understanding limited?   Is our Acceptance limited?  Is our Tolerance limited?  Is our Forgiveness limited?  Is our Mercy limited?

Polarity is over.  It’s not about choosing positive over negative.  It’s about being able to embrace both, in understanding, acceptance and tolerance.

The reason we grow a tree that produces sweet fruit is not to feed everyone else who doesn’t know how to grow their own tree.   The reason we grow a tree that produces sweet fruit is to show how it’s done.  So there will be more trees producing sweeter fruits.  No fruit falls far from its tree.  And that applies to the fruits of our experiences having much to do with our seedthoughts.

We don’t feed a man a fish, we teach him how.

(then he’ll spend all day out fishing and drinking beer)