‘OK I’m going in’, I think, as I get ready to take on one of our touchiest issues. Like I was some sort of marine in a dug out, putting on my helmet, getting ready to crawl out of my hole in what I already know is a foray.

Let’s look at our attachment to what others think and feel.

Why is it an issue?

Where it’s simply civil and respectful to be considerate and listen to others, that’s not what this is all about.

We’re not even doing that…being considerate and listening…that’s why such things like the young man on campus in W. Virginia, the other young men in the planes that flew into the Twin Towers and Timothy McVey, all did what they did. Because we’re not being considerate of others and listening.

Maybe if we could LISTEN, without feeling all emotionally threatened, becoming unglued at the seams, then the causes could be diffused, before desperation sets in and, extreme measures are used, just so other perspectives can be heard and considered?

But that bit of wisdom hasn’t sunken into our thick heads, yet.

We’re too busy needing to be emotionally supported…

by others

To allow any other perspective or version of reality besides the one we’ve got going around inside OUR heads, to dominate reality. We’re psychological dependents, you see. We have to psychologically be fed.  We’re all babies that don’t want to learn how to hold our own emotional bottles.

(pause)

Why, the very fact that outside agreement of others is required, tells me what ever we believe is a lie, is flimsy and insubstantial. Like a rickety bridge. Simply BECAUSE the belief does not create a solid sense of support, much less feeling experiences of ‘well balanced’.

And we’re a bunch of dummies thinking more people standing on the same rickety bridge will somehow make it less rickety. rofl   Talk about deluded…

The only person’s perspective that actually and genuinely makes any difference in our lives, is OURS. If I choose to imagine I’m the Easter Bunny and it makes ME feel good about myself and ME accepting of myself and ME happy with myself, then I’ve already got what I need, don’t I? It doesn’t much matter what other people think does it?

And that makes ALL the difference in MY World. Because once I realize this, I also realize it’s not important if any body else see things the same way. I’m Sovereign over my World. Always have been, too. Just the same as every single one of us, Is and Has Been. No one else is in charge of what rattles around inside our heads.

We all know it, too, but, don’t want to face it. Because then it’s us that needs to change, instead of other people. It’s called ‘taking back our power over reality’. If I’m minding my own store, then I’m not dependent upon what’s going on inside anyone else’s. The Law of Attraction will take over the spot ‘worry’ used to occupy.

The only cause we have to seek dominance over others, is when we’re not claiming the dominance we already have, in regards to Whom is creating the reality rattling around inside of us.

Just ponder it for a while.

It doesn’t matter how many people tell us we’re pretty, if we don’t feel pretty on the inside, no compliments will ever sink in, will ever be felt, will ever be enough, can ever get through the ‘ring past not’ we’ve already drawn inside of our own hearts.

The ONLY time we ‘need’ emotionally, is when we’re out of our EVER Loving Minds, in the way we think and feel about ourselves.

We are free of our attachments, just as soon as we realize we don’t need any. The ‘God’ inside our heart has all we’ll ever ‘need’.  Leaving us FREE to Love where, what and when,  we Will.